Old love:
I have absolutely no problem with big age gaps in relationships, as long as you're going out with an adult (and I don't mean what they consider an adult at the movie theatre - they make you pay full fare at 16 which I also think is a tremendous gyp!). There's only 3 years between myself & MODA, but I really don't think it would matter if that was 10 years. 30 might be a stretch I s'pose... My minister for coffee flavoured counsel married a man 17 years her senior and they're completely happy and completely in love. My biological grandfather was 46 years older than my biological grandmother and as odd as it seems, all reports were that they too were deliriously happy. If it wasn't for their union, my mother wouldn't be here and neither would I. So yay for love at all ages.. above 20... unless you're both under 20. There it's out now; I feel better.